The devastation I felt when I found I was pregnant at age 18 was insane. I didn’t know what to do or who to turn to. My own flesh and blood was telling me to get an abortion. The uptight private school I was attending told me if I started showing they would have to kick me out. It was a good thing I only had one class left and I graduated early. If I had not put my mind to the school work I would have failed, loss credits would have had to start over in my classes. Instead, I reached for that diploma and grabbed it.
The school tried to persuade me to give my child up for adoption. I thought; why would I do that? I believed in myself. I felt as though I could care for this child and provide all the needs and wants this child would ask for. I knew I could change my life around for my child if I just put my mind to it. I thought why would I kill or give up my child if the person that was giving me the advice didn’t do the same. Why was I any different than them? The group home I was staying at sent me to House of Dawn when I was about 3 to 4 months pregnant. I immediately knew there would be a change.
While at HOD I conquered a lot of fears. I learned how to be responsible and do things for myself. I also learned how to go out into the world and grab the things I want. In this journey I enrolled myself in college and started in the Spring semester as a freshman. I never imagined myself as a college student. If House of Dawn would not have pushed me as they did to complete this task then I would not have done this. I also finally got my driving permit which I am now trying to upgrade to driver’s license.
House of Dawn provided me with encouragement and faith. They helped with assigning counselor’s, parenting classes, and helping us find resources so we can strive to be a better person, and even better, an outstanding mother. I plan to leave this place with a steady, dependable job and transition to the Transitional Living Program or even better moving into my own place. I also plan to get my own car and license before I leave. If it wasn’t for House of Dawn’s motivation I don’t know where I would be. When I leave this place I just hope it will be on good terms and I will have completed all of my goals and come back to visit.
Hi my name is Carlys Daniel and I can honestly say that I’m so proud of the young lady that I have become today thanks to the HOUSE OF DAWN. I entered the program in December of 2009 my son was only 10 months old at the time and we were going through so much.
We went from staying with one aunt to staying with another aunt until we eventually ended up staying with his dad. It was so hard staying from place to place with a child even though we were with family they always made us feel as though we was a burden and that was going on from the beginning of my pregnancy until my son got here. And yes I think things would have been different if my mother was still here with me but unfortunately she passed when I was thirteen.
We were having such a rough time until HOUSE OF DAWN gave us a place to call our own, and we are forever grateful. Now my son is an outstanding 2 years old. Wow time sure does fly. During our time in the program I really learned some great skills, such as pregnancy prevention, parenting, and budgeting skills that are really going to help me while I’m on my own.
I’m so thankful for the HOUSE OF DAWN because they believed in me and gave me hope when I thought I had nothing and no one left in the world. And even though I didn’t think that I would be in the program for the entire time I’m so glad I stayed. Even though I’m going to miss you all dearly I’m glad I had the opportunity to stay while I did and I wish the HOUSE OF DAWN the best of luck and I pray that it will continue to succeed and being a blessing for others just like they did for me and my son.
When I first found out about my pregnancy, I had no place to go. Having no family or friends to turn to, I found HOD. I was sure that everything would be okay. I could get a job, an apartment, finish High-School. I could make this work. When reality hit I became scared, confused, I felt lonely, depressed and I was not happy or confident about raising a baby.
I came to House Of Dawn July 5, 2009 when I was 17 years old and 8 months pregnant. I was not prepared or aware for what I was about to learn. During my time in Second Chance I graduated from high school with the help of my case manager in May 2010. Also gave birth to my daughter Akayla in August 2009.
They provided me with food, shelter, transportation, and access to education. House of Dawn cared about me as a person, not just a mother. I learned how to maintain positive relationships, how to bond with my daughter Akayla and all of the life skills that I needed in order to be successful and independent.
In November 2010 I transitioned from the Second Chance Home into the TLP (Transitional Living Program). While in TLP I bought my own car and maintain my car note and car insurance. I am very grateful for what House of Dawn has done for me, I only hope, that I can do something some day for them.
My name is Ashley I am a resident at House of Dawn. I became a mother at the age of 16 and moved into House of Dawn Second Chance Home when I was 17 and my daughter was two years of age.
When I came to the House of Dawn with my daughter almost two years ago I realized that being a teen mom and learning to parent would not be an easy task. Sometimes it gets hard living with other families, having staff with you all the time and following house rules. But I had to understand that a second chance home is here to help me and that my baby is worth succeeding for.
My goal is to learn how to be independent on my own with my daughter and daily I have to remind myself of that. At House of Dawn I have learned a lot of things about taking care of me and my baby. I’ve learned the importance of eating right and how to feed my daughter so that we both stay healthy. Staff has taught me how to recognize when my baby is sick and what I should do.
Daily staff shows me something new about parenting or myself that I never thought about. We learn about managing our time, money, working hard, and getting our education. Living in a second chance home to me means that I always have someone to talk to when I need advice. I can trust them with my personal problems and thoughts and I know they are going to support me in making good decisions.
I understand that being a single teenage mother is not an easy job but being here I feel that if I take life step by step and remember what I am learning and that I can do it.
I entered the House Of Dawn TLP when I was 20 years old. I was young, pregnant, depressed and homeless. I had no one to help me and get me on the right path. My mother had been gone for years, and I knew little about parenting.
But when I entered the House Of Dawn, I was given a fresh start. Not only did the House of Dawn welcome me in, they prepared me for life. They gave me an apartment, parenting classes, and 24-hour support. I could call on them for anything and I still can. My mother missed the delivery of my son, but House of Dawn was there. They became my family.
While in the House Of Dawn I completed things that once seemed so far out my reach. I completed my G.E.D and enrolled in college. I am now a full-time student at Georgia Perimeter College. Before entering the program I acquired a debt from being evicted from a previous apartment. They help me resolve it and now I have a good apartment in a good neighborhood.
Mrs. Dawn and Mr. Jessie spent weeks searching for me a car that I still have today. Through all their counseling and support, I’ve built self-esteem. I am now a smarter person and a good parent. I love House of Dawn, and they will be a part of me forever. They showed me there was a second chance and I could make it if I tried and gave it my all!
Thank you HOD!
Sara & Zyon
I’m finally here!! After two attempts I’m here lol!! I sat down today and thought…how did I really make it here to Paris France to study abroad…Me Sarah Willis the girl who came from nothing became pregnant as a teen, and to many became another statistic! but #ToGoBeTheGlory for his grace and mercy! He stopped me even when i was a mess and made me my best!
You know sometimes I really don’t think you can grasp the role house of down plays in my life….the blessing it was, is, and will always be!
That year I was set apart from the world opened my eyes, allowed the holy spirit back control of my life and I blossomed! I will never stop…I’m ready to help someone who wants to change and be helped as you helped me! Love you & God Bless HOD